Wednesday, November 6, 2013


The Liebster Blog Award is a way for bloggers to highlight Blog's and Bloggers that have small followings but deserve acknowledgement for their hard work, excellence and contribution to the world of Blogging. I was honoured to be nominated by Rea Miranda and Matt Ewens. 

Here are the nomination rules:
1. List eleven random facts about yourself.
2. Nominate eleven bloggers for the Liebster Blog Award.
3. Notify the bloggers.
4. Ask eleven questions the bloggers must answer upon receiving the award.
5. Answer the eleven questions you were asked when you were nominated.
6. Link back to the person who nominated you.
7. When this is complete add the Award to your page (take any or all of mine)

11 Random facts about me.
1    I was the inspiration for  the phrase I can go from Sweetheart to B****H in less than a minute, how fast can you run?"
2    I tolerate all opinions different than my own.
3    I am not afraid of confrontation if it protects someone else.
4    I love everyone (even when I hate their behavior)
5    I want this book out of my head and on paper
6    IF I spent less time on Google + number 5 would be done
7    I will probably not spend less time on Google +
8    A power outage would probably help me get my book done
9    I prefer writing with pen and paper then editing on the computer
10    My mind tends to get vapor locked
11    I want this book out of my head and on paper... oh I said that already.

 Rea Miranda  wanted to know. I don't know why she wanted to know but she did.
reademiranda.blogspot.com


The questions I answered as per Rea Miranda's request. 

1.    If reincarnation is true who do you think you were in a previous life?
Well.... I have a recording of a regression and I'm just happy to be in this life time.  No one that anyone would know today... just history very ancient history.  LOL

2.   What do you fear most about life?
BUGS IN MY HOUSE!!!  I still have nightmares over the bedbugs in fact just had one last night (nightmare not bug)!!  Little Bastards!! every one of them should meet my steamer and die like the midnight rapists they are squirming, writhing, in absolute agony!  DIE DIE DIE

3.   If you could change your name what would it be and why?
I am in the process of changing my legal name to Sho Nique.  With healing from the emotional trauma and abuse the old name is just no longer mine and brings me pain just to have to use it on anything legal. 
I no longer wish to be associated with any of that and where there are many things outside of my control... this is within my control

4.   One secret about you nobody knows.
It won't be a secret anymore...... Ok here it is... my 3rd husband fell out of bed one night... when I asked him if he was ok, what happened he said.... You farted and blew me right off the side of the bed!!!!

5.   If you could go back in time to change the course of life where would you go?
I would have gone with my own gut feeling shortly after my beautiful Son was born and accept the hand that was being offered to us for a new life.  Instead I stayed when my Mother insisted but that is another story.  My one regret in life is not moving my children when things fell apart with their Father.  They (my Mother and 1st) convinced me that I needed to keep the children close to their biologic family.  It was a mistake, one I can not repair.  It may not have been better but it certainly would have been a chance where by staying there was none of that.  So where would I go?  Anywhere rather than where I stayed.  My advice?  Always follow your gut.

6.   Have you ever wanted to be the opposite sex for one day and what would you do if you could?
    No. 

7.   Do you prefer water (ocean and lakes) or mountains?
I have a choice?  Mountains as that water flows to the oceans and lakes.... oh and power which utilizes trash as its fuel like Sweeden and Norway.  Oh that wasn't on the list???  OK    Mountains if I have to make a choice... and of course.... World Peace without a one World Government... oh I'm off track again... OK Mountains....

8.   Have you ever stolen something and what was it?
Yes... time... I steal time from others when I neglect to provide them with time from myself which would benefit them along their own journey.

9.   Would you tell a lie to pacify someone?
No and believe me it is a pain not to do this.  I mean people would rather you lie than tell them the truth in many cases.  OH does this make my butt look big?  Like the Mount Rushmore looking back at me!!!  But that color really brings out the sparkle in your eyes and.... WAIT!!! NOOOO not the vase!!!  here use the hammer instead... grabs an ice pack AGAIN.

 10.   What makes you angry?
Intolerance.  I may not like what others do or say but I will fight to the death for their right to say it and be heard.  Of course sometimes (refer to number 9) this has unexpected consequences. 
Children not being adored, valued, and loved is equal.

1.   One word you think describes you.
    Unpredictable

The questions I would like to know from my Nominees.  

1.  What is up with everyone thinking a clean house is admirable?
2   What is your favorite exercise? now or ever
3   Do you still stick your gum under the desk for future use
4   Why do you bless all of us with your wonderful shares on the internet
5   What do you consider essential while creating?  Music? Quiet? Mood Lighting?
6   What is the strangest food you have ever eaten and would you do it again?
7   How many places have you lived?  Favorite?  Why?
8   Happily ever after?  OR  Headed toward Hell?  your take on life
9   Why do you stay up at night, if you have insomnia.  If you don't what is your secret?
10 Name and describe your favorite piece of clothing
11 Why is number 10 your favorite?  How does it make you feel? 


My list of nominees for this award.

You were hand picked as people with pages that bring me joy or encouragement or laughter or sometimes just something that causes me to shake my head in disbelief.
Thank you for your wonderful content and the joy you bring all of us.

Frank Babb    http://frankbabb.com
Niamh Brown  http://niamhnews.wordpress.com
Katie Cross   http://kcrosswriting.com
John Raymond Peterson    https://plus.google.com/u/0/105898957619260166972
Iuzeit  http://www.iuzeit.com
Christy Sandhoff http://christysandhoff.blogspot.com
Adam Washington  http://awashreborn.blogspot.com
Quentin Gage http://traumaanddissociation.wordpress.com
Smile+   http://traumaanddissociation.wordpress.com
S. Oborowsky  http://soborowsky.wordpress.com/